"Tu Jo Hai, Toh sab kuch hai, Nah koi Kammi Hai......"
Such an awesome line. It translates in English to,
"
If you are there, Everything is complete, there is nothing missing. Life's complete."
When you meet someone in life who makes you feel...... Inexplicable, who makes you feel like you are at the top of the world and is always there to catch you if you fall, someone who completes you.
A few years ago, there was a girl. She was sweet, smart, had the most mesmerizing features, the most fascinating smile, a great personality. When a guy who was drifting along in life lay his eyes on her, he knew that there was something there between them, Something that was, FOREVER. As time passed they became the best of friends and one day while they were just sitting together, confessed their deepest feelings to each other. That was the first day of the rest of their lives.
This could be a paraphrase from any love story. There are many movies that have story lines along these lines and even more real stories that live this everyday.
They built a relationship, on friendship, trust, honesty, long walks,a need for a ear, a shoulder, care, compassion and an unknowing love that crept in without even knocking. They realized that without one another they were not going to feel complete. Everything in life took a new dimension. It changes that very moment. It's a new world. A more fulfilling one.
A Relationship, a bond, a forever is built on small things, but these things are the most important the most irreplaceable things in the world. The little things may be different for each relationship, but they do exist.
Life has this way of testing out relationships, throw a curve ball your way. When the relationship comes through with just a few scratches and bruises, you know it is in good hands.
Long distance relationships being the typical example. We get so used to the one we love being around all the time that when we are not able to see them for a long period of time, we start to feel like having one leg in India and the other in USA. Over time, you start understand that the relationship over such distances needs a lot more care and love than one where, you can hold hands, look into one another's eyes and all is understood. Care for the little things, care for the love. Understanding the pain of separation and the strength of the bond. Remembering the good times and the ways they got through the bad times together adds strength to the relationship.
To hold on to little things to keep the big picture in focus.
As most who know me must have guessed by now this is quite autobiographical, this is about my life, the changes the past and the future. My love is something that I can never put in words.
Love is forever, it keeps you strong and also give you strength to face each day with the all conquering confidence.
Rock on Love. You are forever in the people who have experienced what it is to be in love.
(Dedicated to all the people in Love, especially the ones in Long distance relationships and of course last but not least, My love.)
Rahul.....
:) :) :) :) :)
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